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Parashat Ki Tetze - Third Aliyah

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Torah Text (Ki Tetze — Aliyah 3 of 7)

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ח כִּי תִבְנֶה בַּיִת חָדָשׁ וְעָשִׂיתָ מַעֲקֶה לְגַגֶּךָ וְלֹא תָשִׂים דָּמִים בְּבֵיתֶךָ כִּי יִפֹּל הַנֹּפֵל מִמֶּנּוּ׃
22:8 Ki tivneh bayit chadash ve'asita ma'akeh legagecha velo tasim damim beveitecha ki yipol hanofel mimenu
ט לֹא תִזְרַע כַּרְמְךָ כִּלְאָיִם פֶּן תִּקְדַּשׁ הַמְלֵאָה הַזֶּרַע אֲשֶׁר תִּזְרָע וּתְבוּאַת הַכָּרֶם׃
9 Lo tizra karmecha kil'ayim pen tikdash hamle'ah hazera asher tizra utvu'at hakarem
י לֹא תַחֲרֹשׁ בְּשׁוֹר וּבַחֲמֹר יַחְדָּו׃
10 Lo tacharosh beshor uvachamor yachdav
יא לֹא תִלְבַּשׁ שַׁעַטְנֵז צֶמֶר וּפִשְׁתִּים יַחְדָּו׃
11 Lo tilbash sha'atnez tzemer ufishtim yachdav
יב גְּדִלִים תַּעֲשֶׂה לָּךְ עַל אַרְבַּע כַּנְפוֹת כְּסוּתְךָ אֲשֶׁר תְּכַסֶּה בָּהּ׃
12 Gedilim ta'aseh lach al arba kanfot kesutcha asher techaseh bah
יג כִּי יִקַּח אִישׁ אִשָּׁה וּבָא אֵלֶיהָ וּשְׂנֵאָהּ׃
13 Ki yikach ish ishah uva eleha usne'ah
יד וְשָׂם לָהּ עֲלִילֹת דְּבָרִים וְהוֹצִיא עָלֶיהָ שֵׁם רָע וְאָמַר אֶת הָאִשָּׁה הַזֹּאת לָקַחְתִּי וָאֶקְרַב אֵלֶיהָ וְלֹא מָצָאתִי לָהּ בְּתוּלִים׃
14 Vesam lah alilot devarim vehotzi aleha shem ra ve'amar et ha'ishah hazot lakachti va'ekrav eleha velo matzati lah betulim
טו וְלָקַח אֲבִי (הנער) [הַנַּעֲרָה] וְאִמָּהּ וְהוֹצִיאוּ אֶת בְּתוּלֵי (הנער) [הַנַּעֲרָה] אֶל זִקְנֵי הָעִיר הַשָּׁעְרָה׃
15 Velakach avi hana'arah ve'imah vehotzi'u et betulei hana'arah el ziknei ha'ir hasha'rah
טז וְאָמַר אֲבִי (הנער) [הַנַּעֲרָה] אֶל הַזְּקֵנִים אֶת בִּתִּי נָתַתִּי לָאִישׁ הַזֶּה לְאִשָּׁה וַיִּשְׂנָאֶהָ׃
16 Ve'amar avi hana'arah el hazkenim et biti natati la'ish hazeh le'ishah vayisna'eha
יז וְהִנֵּה הוּא שָׂם עֲלִילֹת דְּבָרִים לֵאמֹר לֹא מָצָאתִי לְבִתְּךָ בְּתוּלִים וְאֵלֶּה בְּתוּלֵי בִתִּי וּפָרְשׂוּ הַשִּׂמְלָה לִפְנֵי זִקְנֵי הָעִיר׃
17 Vehineh hu sam alilot devarim lemor lo matzati levitcha betulim ve'eleh betulei viti ufarsu hasimlah lifnei ziknei ha'ir
יח וְלָקְחוּ זִקְנֵי הָעִיר הַהִוא אֶת הָאִישׁ וְיִסְּרוּ אֹתוֹ׃
18 Velakchu ziknei ha'ir hahi et ha'ish veyisru oto
יט וְעָנְשׁוּ אֹתוֹ מֵאָה כֶסֶף וְנָתְנוּ לַאֲבִי הַנַּעֲרָה כִּי הוֹצִיא שֵׁם רָע עַל בְּתוּלַת יִשְׂרָאֵל וְלוֹ תִהְיֶה לְאִשָּׁה לֹא יוּכַל לְשַׁלְּחָהּ כָּל יָמָיו׃
19 Ve'anshu oto me'ah chesef venatnu la'avi hana'arah ki hotzi shem ra al betulat Yisrael velo tihyeh le'ishah lo yuchal leshalchah kol yamav
כ וְאִם אֱמֶת הָיָה הַדָּבָר הַזֶּה לֹא נִמְצְאוּ בְתוּלִים (לנער) [לַנַּעֲרָה]׃
20 Ve'im emet hayah hadavar hazeh lo nimtze'u vetulim lana'arah
כא וְהוֹצִיאוּ אֶת (הנער) [הַנַּעֲרָה] אֶל פֶּתַח בֵּית אָבִיהָ וּסְקָלוּהָ אַנְשֵׁי עִירָהּ בָּאֲבָנִים וָמֵתָה כִּי עָשְׂתָה נְבָלָה בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל לִזְנוֹת בֵּית אָבִיהָ וּבִעַרְתָּ הָרָע מִקִּרְבֶּךָ׃
21 Vehotzi'u et hana'arah el petach beit aviha uskaluha anshei irah ba'avanim vametah ki astah nevalah beYisrael liznot beit aviha uvi'arta hara mikirbecha
כב כִּי יִמָּצֵא אִישׁ שֹׁכֵב עִם אִשָּׁה בְעֻלַת בַּעַל וּמֵתוּ גַּם שְׁנֵיהֶם הָאִישׁ הַשֹּׁכֵב עִם הָאִשָּׁה וְהָאִשָּׁה וּבִעַרְתָּ הָרָע מִיִּשְׂרָאֵל׃
22 Ki yimatze ish shochev im ishah ve'ulat ba'al umetu gam shneihem ha'ish hashochev im ha'ishah veha'ishah uvi'arta hara miYisrael
כג כִּי יִהְיֶה (נער) [נַעֲרָה] בְתוּלָה מְאֹרָשָׂה לְאִישׁ וּמְצָאָהּ אִישׁ בָּעִיר וְשָׁכַב עִמָּהּ׃
23 Ki yihyeh na'arah vetulah me'orasah le'ish umetza'ah ish ba'ir veshachav imah
כד וְהוֹצֵאתֶם אֶת שְׁנֵיהֶם אֶל שַׁעַר הָעִיר הַהִוא וּסְקַלְתֶּם אֹתָם בָּאֲבָנִים וָמֵתוּ אֶת (הנער) [הַנַּעֲרָה] עַל דְּבַר אֲשֶׁר לֹא צָעֲקָה בָעִיר וְאֶת הָאִישׁ עַל דְּבַר אֲשֶׁר עִנָּה אֶת אֵשֶׁת רֵעֵהוּ וּבִעַרְתָּ הָרָע מִקִּרְבֶּךָ׃
24 Vehotzetem et shneihem el sha'ar ha'ir hahi uskaltem otam ba'avanim vametu et hana'arah al dvar asher lo tza'akah va'ir ve'et ha'ish al dvar asher inah et eshet re'ehu uvi'arta hara mikirbecha
כה וְאִם בַּשָּׂדֶה יִמְצָא הָאִישׁ אֶת (הנער) [הַנַּעֲרָה] הַמְאֹרָשָׂה וְהֶחֱזִיק בָּהּ הָאִישׁ וְשָׁכַב עִמָּהּ וּמֵת הָאִישׁ אֲשֶׁר שָׁכַב עִמָּהּ לְבַדּוֹ׃
25 Ve'im basadeh yimtza ha'ish et hana'arah ham'orasah vehechezik bah ha'ish veshachav imah umet ha'ish asher shachav imah levado
כו (ולנער) [וְלַנַּעֲרָה] לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה דָבָר אֵין (לנער) [לַנַּעֲרָה] חֵטְא מָוֶת כִּי כַּאֲשֶׁר יָקוּם אִישׁ עַל רֵעֵהוּ וּרְצָחוֹ נֶפֶשׁ כֵּן הַדָּבָר הַזֶּה׃
26 Velana'arah lo ta'aseh davar ein lana'arah chet mavet ki ka'asher yakum ish al re'ehu uretzacho nefesh ken hadavar hazeh
כז כִּי בַשָּׂדֶה מְצָאָהּ צָעֲקָה (הנער) [הַנַּעֲרָה] הַמְאֹרָשָׂה וְאֵין מוֹשִׁיעַ לָהּ׃
27 Ki vasadeh metza'ah tza'akah hana'arah ham'orasah ve'ein moshia lah
כח כִּי יִמְצָא אִישׁ (נער) [נַעֲרָה] בְתוּלָה אֲשֶׁר לֹא אֹרָשָׂה וּתְפָשָׂהּ וְשָׁכַב עִמָּהּ וְנִמְצָאוּ׃
28 Ki yimtza ish na'arah vetulah asher lo orasah utfasah veshachav imah venimtza'u
כט וְנָתַן הָאִישׁ הַשֹּׁכֵב עִמָּהּ לַאֲבִי (הנער) [הַנַּעֲרָה] חֲמִשִּׁים כָּסֶף וְלוֹ תִהְיֶה לְאִשָּׁה תַּחַת אֲשֶׁר עִנָּהּ לֹא יוּכַל שַׁלְּחָהּ כָּל יָמָיו׃
29 Venatan ha'ish hashochev imah la'avi hana'arah chamishim kasef velo tihyeh le'ishah tachat asher inah lo yuchal shalchah kol yamav
כג א לֹא יִקַּח אִישׁ אֶת אֵשֶׁת אָבִיו וְלֹא יְגַלֶּה כְּנַף אָבִיו׃
23:1 Lo yikach ish et eshet aviv velo yegaleh kenaf aviv
ב לֹא יָבֹא פְצוּעַ דַּכָּא וּכְרוּת שָׁפְכָה בִּקְהַל יְדוָד׃
2 Lo yavo fetzua daka ucherut shofchah bik'hal Adonai
ג לֹא יָבֹא מַמְזֵר בִּקְהַל יְדוָד גַּם דּוֹר עֲשִׂירִי לֹא יָבֹא לוֹ בִּקְהַל יְדוָד׃
3 Lo yavo mamzer bik'hal Adonai gam dor asiri lo yavo lo bik'hal Adonai
ד לֹא יָבֹא עַמּוֹנִי וּמוֹאָבִי בִּקְהַל יְדוָד גַּם דּוֹר עֲשִׂירִי לֹא יָבֹא לָהֶם בִּקְהַל יְדוָד עַד עוֹלָם׃
4 Lo yavo amoni umo'avi bik'hal Adonai gam dor asiri lo yavo lahem bik'hal Adonai ad olam
ה עַל דְּבַר אֲשֶׁר לֹא קִדְּמוּ אֶתְכֶם בַּלֶּחֶם וּבַמַּיִם בַּדֶּרֶךְ בְּצֵאתְכֶם מִמִּצְרָיִם וַאֲשֶׁר שָׂכַר עָלֶיךָ אֶת בִּלְעָם בֶּן בְּעוֹר מִפְּתוֹר אֲרַם נַהֲרַיִם לְקַלְלֶךָּ׃
5 Al dvar asher lo kidmu etchem balechem uvamayim baderech betzetchem miMitzrayim va'asher sachar alecha et bil'am ben be'or mipetor Aram Naharayim lekalelecha
ו וְלֹא אָבָה יְדוָד אֱלֹהֶיךָ לִשְׁמֹעַ אֶל בִּלְעָם וַיַּהֲפֹךְ יְדוָד אֱלֹהֶיךָ לְּךָ אֶת הַקְּלָלָה לִבְרָכָה כִּי אֲהֵבְךָ יְדוָד אֱלֹהֶיךָ׃
6 Velo avah Adonai Elohecha lishmo'a el bil'am vayahafoch Adonai Elohecha lecha et haklalah livrachah ki ahevcha Adonai Elohecha
ז לֹא תִדְרֹשׁ שְׁלֹמָם וְטֹבָתָם כָּל יָמֶיךָ לְעוֹלָם׃
7 Lo tidrosh shlomam vetovatam kol yamecha le'olam

Responsibility, boundaries and a good name

The aliyah opens with the commandment of the roof rail. Whoever builds a new house is required to make “ve’asita ma’akeh legagecha” (a parapet for your roof, 22:8), in order to prevent a situation in which a person falls from it. The Torah places on the householder a responsibility not only for what he does with his own hands, but also for the dangers he leaves standing in the space under his control.

From here the Torah moves to a series of laws of separation: one may not sow mixed seed in a vineyard, one may not plow with an ox and a donkey together, and one may not wear shaatnez of wool and linen together. Alongside these prohibitions comes also the commandment of the twisted fringes on the four corners of one’s garment.

The central part of the aliyah deals with relationships, faithfulness, injury to a person’s good name, and sexual transgressions. The Torah describes a husband who puts out an evil name against his wife and claims that he did not find her a virgin. The matter is brought before the elders of the city, and if it emerges that the accusation was a false charge, the man is punished and fined, and he may not send her away all his days. If the claim turns out to be true, the Torah describes a severe punishment for the act.

Following this come laws concerning relations with a married woman and with a betrothed young woman. The Torah distinguishes between a case in which the act takes place in the city and a case in which the man seizes the young woman in the field. In the case where she was forced and there is no possibility that anyone would come to her aid, the Torah states explicitly that she bears no capital guilt, and the responsibility falls on the man who harmed her. After that comes also the case of a virgin who is not betrothed, and the man who harmed her bears severe financial and family consequences.

At the end of the aliyah come the laws of entry into the congregation of God. The Torah mentions among others “fetzua daka ucherut shofchah” (one wounded or maimed in his private parts, 23:2), “mamzer” (23:3), and the Ammonite and the Moabite. Regarding Ammon and Moab a reason is given, connected to their conduct toward Israel on the way out of Egypt and to the hiring of Balaam son of Beor to curse Israel. The Torah also mentions that God turned the curse into a blessing out of His love for Israel.

Insights from the aliyah

Responsibility begins before the disaster

The commandment of the roof rail teaches that it is not enough to say that you did not intend to cause harm. A person is required to identify in advance a danger that stands in his own domain and to prevent it. The Torah builds preventive responsibility, not only a reaction after someone has already been hurt.

Not every mixture is desirable

The mixed seed of the vineyard, plowing with two different animals, and shaatnez all deal with combinations that the Torah limits. On the level of the idea, the aliyah stresses that boundaries and distinctions carry value, even when from the outside a combination looks possible.

The fringes appear immediately after the laws of separation

After a series of prohibitions on mixture comes a commandment that sits on the garment itself. One may see in this an idea by which boundaries are not only things a person refrains from, but also something he carries with him as part of his everyday identity.

An evil name can damage a whole life

The Torah treats with severity a husband who tries to stain his wife by means of a false charge. Injuring a person’s name is not merely unpleasant speech. It can change standing, family and future, and therefore the law demands clarification and does not allow the claim to be left hanging in the air.

The Torah distinguishes between consent and coercion

In the part dealing with the betrothed young woman, when the description is of being seized by force in a place where there is no one to save her, the Torah removes the guilt from the young woman and places the responsibility on the man. This is a very important distinction in reading the parashah: a situation in which a person is harmed under coercion is not described as shared responsibility.

A society of holiness also needs a system of boundaries

The last part of the aliyah deals with the question of who enters the congregation and under what conditions. Here the Torah is no longer speaking only about a private act, but about the structure of the society and its public identity.

Ammon and Moab are measured also by what they did not do

The reason given in the passage is not only a direct act of harm, but also the fact that they did not come out to meet Israel “lo kidmu etchem balechem uvamayim” (with bread and water, 23:5) on the way. This underlines that indifference at a time of need can carry deep moral significance.

Three of the units stand as far from one another as possible: the roof of a private house, a field without witnesses, and a people that did not come out with a loaf of bread. In all three the Torah asks the same question, what was in your hands to do. In the roof rail and in Ammon and Moab it holds a person liable for what was not done, and in the field it exempts for exactly the same reason, because nothing was in her hands. The same measure, once to obligate and once to acquit.

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